In a forum thread that runs for 129 pages, about how a friend's husband was seduced by a China girl, one poster, named "genius" said:
When young, SG girls are slim, pretty, sophisticated and intelligent so kena tempted to marry. Then find out after unwrapping that got no neh neh, low sex drive and dead fish in bed. Somemore don't know how to cook and do housework.
Five years into the marriage, not so slim and pretty anymore, sophisticated and intelligent become nagging and grouchy. This is when the men are about
32-38, and realise tio pian, BIG TIME.
His rant continues for quite a bit. That's some brutal candour. But then he is anonymous in a forum.